So What’s With This Craze?
There is a Yam-sized rise ter ‘straight’ women experimenting with other women. It seems that women of all ages are dabbling with the role coined bi-sexuality. Today, it is hard to find a female who at one point has not kissed, fantasized, or even dated another woman. I wasgoed told by one gay female that she slightly knows any women who did not have a “gay” encounter during collegium. Is it possible that with gay and straight on opposite finishes of the continuum that bi-sexuality is actually the “standaard”?В Years ago drank wasgoed the “excuse”. Today no excuses necessary. It is fairly possibly the latest thing to do!
Who Is Doing It and Where?
I know several gay woman. Each one of them told mij, this Summer, on separate occasions that they were dating “straight” woman. It sounded so funny to mij, ” I am dating a STRAIGHT woman. “Not so straight I thought” at the time. Now, none of thesis ladies know each other and range te age from 21 to 45. I thought to myself how odd. This can’t be an accident. I instantaneously got the idea to write about it. Overheen the past several months I have bot following up with all thesis women on what is going on te their lives. I have spent hours talking to them on their observations and feelings on this shift te society. I have posted on the Internet questions spil to find out what is going on.
It seems that this is a trend all overheen the country. I have bot told that youthfull women are smooching other women when boys aren’t around just for the joy of it. Collegium campuses are packed with damsel on dame practices. Even if a chick is not “otherwise” likely to proef she will do it anyway just to “do it”. This of course opens up a entire fresh topic of what the boys think about that. Ladies are likely to do it because it will make them “more” popular with the boys. The online personals have a large cropping of women seeking very first time practices and woman suggesting themselves to thesis straight women.
Women ter their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s determining to cross the line. Why? No drunken collegium excuses now. Evidently on any given night a gay woman will find a plethora of straight, attractive, woman looking to see what it is like. Thesis woman are often and likely to have beau’s, engaged or even married. Straight clubs often suggest a Gay night. Evidently, droves of woman go for joy just to see happens. Many places you can walk ter and think you are ter a style tv-programma. Beautiful womanish woman who are violating the stero-type.
Using my Three friends spil examples this is what I found: Friend 1: went on a few dates with a female who went on a vacation. When she got back she called my friend to go “out”. While out she sprang this on hier, “Well, when I wasgoed away I got married! My spouse doesn’t truly mind since you are a lady.” She, also, recently wasgoed succesnummer on by a woman 27 years hier senior who is a widow with Trio kids.
Friend Two: Is working at a schoolgebouw with a straight dame who has bot dating hier bf for Two years (I have seen this lady looks os youthfull and almost like a child). My friend strikes up a friendship with the straight dame and before you know it auténtico feelings develop and a relationship leisurely starts. During which point the bf proposes and she gets engaged! Bam! The relationship inbetween the woman enlargened sexually to a total reciprocal relationship. Still engaged and ter love with two people. different genders. The fiancГ© does not know “everything’ but is not worried because it is only a female.
Friend Three: A seasoned sapphic. Beginning at a very youthful age straight women have bot the majority of woman that have liked hier. Te fact, she told mij she has only dated Four fully gay women. This does not please hier she has other difficulties with this-saved for another Hub. She is presently being strenuously pursued by a much junior “straight” chick with a bf of Trio years. This youthful woman is buying hier gifts, calling hier and texting hier daily. She spends hours at hier job just watching hier and is excessively jealous. All while having a long distance beau. All this prior to even one date. Ultimately my friend caved and went out with hier explaining, “I have done the straight thing and I am indeed not into it and you have a bf now anyway.” Still all starry eyed gifts and calls proceed.
Note: All three of the woman I know all like “femme” chicks.
This is truly the question? It seems that the junior ladies are doing it because they can and it is intriguing to attempt something fresh. Again the boys like it. The media plays it up spil a joy option. The Katy Perry Song wij all know, I Kissed a Chick and I Liked it has truly set a standard te the caf. Boys can be more menacing than chicks, plain. A female can suggest the communicating side the boys may not. Plus, there is no friendship like your sisters. If a boy hurts you go to the girlfriends?
Now the most interesting area are the older more experienced women ter there 30s and 40 plus. I hear that merienda again the communication inbetween women is so much stronger than it is with dudes it weighs strenuously on this. Mid-Life Keerpunt another major negociador. MLC hits woman at different ages it is not just 40s anymore. There is an air of self confidence a woman achieves straks ter life. She is more aware and plucky sexually than maybe ter hier junior years. A feeling of truly knowing what she wants and when. Maybe by an older age it is just a stone unturned or something to add their Bucket List. Why not? Many woman want the power that sleeping with another woman can give them. Oddly, I hear that when a straight woman determines to proefneming she may call all the shots sexually and is the aggressor. From my research I have found that many of thesis straight women will have no problem with sexually stimulating their sapphic vrouwen but never let the lesbo touch them. They may feel if they don’t derive too much evident pleasure they indeed didn’t “do it”. They are faithful to their ideals, beau’s and husbands? The are able to proceed.
Whatever the reasons are it is surely on the rise and shows a major switch ter society, sexiness and stero-types.
There are many things to be considered with this fresh craze. How does this effect the dynamics inbetween boys and woman spil well spil chicks and their friends. How does this influence the lezzie community? Lesbians are now having to overeenkomst with many fresh issues dealing with and falling for women who like boys. The sexual practice inbetween women is vastly different inbetween women and dudes. How is that addressed? How are couples sated? How is heart pauze avoided?
I will proceed to research this and address thesis issues te furture Hubs.